From manipulation that is. I am sick of it, in all aspects of my life, not just with my ex-husband. So I have made the decision to just move on from it. I know it will take some work, education and the realization to just say no sometimes but I have faith that I will get there. I have made the decision.
I finally got to meet my new counselor today and was very happy to learn that he also has a good background in social work as well. I am sure that will come in handy. I discussed with him that my goal is to move on from manipulation and to learn tools to combat it, recognize it, and not "show my hand" to it.
I am also reading the book "Who's Pulling Your Strings" which is all about manipulation and learning how to not be vulnerable to it as well as tools to deal (or not deal) with manipulators.
So today is a good day, I made a decision to move on from manipulation, talked to some knowledgeable people, and feel like I have gained some more power back in my life.
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